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/plugin marketplace add frankxai/arcanea-marketplace/plugin install soulbook-pillars@arcaneaThis skill inherits all available tools. When active, it can use any tool Claude has access to.
"Creators build audiences of thousands while letting their inner circle atrophy. The irony: the relationships closest to you determine your happiness more than the size of your following."
IMPACT
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INTIMATE CLOSE OUTER
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Partner Friends Audience
Family Mentors Community
1-3 people 5-15 people ∞ people
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SELF
Core Principles:
The Relationship Investment Matrix
Audience vs. Community (Different)
The Creator Partnership Challenge
Essential Frameworks:
THE CIRCLE LAYERS:
├── Intimate (1-3 people)
│ ├── Partner/spouse
│ ├── Children
│ └── Primary family
│ └── Requires: Daily connection, deep knowing
│
├── Close (5-15 people)
│ ├── Best friends
│ ├── Mentors/coaches
│ ├── Key collaborators
│ └── Extended family
│ └── Requires: Weekly/monthly touch, active investment
│
├── Extended (50-150 people)
│ ├── Professional network
│ ├── Acquaintances
│ └── Industry peers
│ └── Requires: Periodic contact, value exchange
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└── Outer (∞ people)
├── Audience
├── Community members
└── Followers
└── Requires: Consistent presence, authentic sharing
RELATIONSHIP QUALITY FORMULA:
├── Time: Quantity of presence
├── Attention: Quality of presence
├── Vulnerability: Depth of sharing
├── Reliability: Keeping commitments
└── Growth: Mutual development
PARTNER DYNAMICS FOR CREATORS:
├── Separate identities (both have purpose)
├── Shared vision (aligned direction)
├── Protected time (non-negotiable together)
├── Communication rhythms (daily, weekly check-ins)
└── Support systems (both give and receive)
Vision Questions:
Future State:
ENVISION YOUR RELATIONSHIPS:
INTIMATE CIRCLE:
├── Deep knowing and being known
├── Regular quality time
├── Navigating conflict well
├── Growth happening together
└── Joy in daily connection
CLOSE CIRCLE:
├── Friends who know the real you
├── Regular meaningful contact
├── Mutual support flowing
├── Celebrating each other's wins
└── Present in hard times
COMMUNITY:
├── People connected to each other
├── Shared purpose and values
├── Giving more than receiving
├── Long-term relationships
└── Beyond your content
Implementation Systems:
INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP SYSTEM:
DAILY RHYTHMS:
├── Morning: Connection before work
├── Daytime: Check-in text/call
├── Evening: Quality presence
├── Bedtime: Gratitude exchange
└── Conflict: Same-day resolution
WEEKLY RHYTHMS:
├── Date night (protected, scheduled)
├── Relationship check-in (15 min)
├── Shared activity (fun together)
├── Individual time (separate pursuits)
└── Planning conversation (logistics)
MONTHLY RHYTHMS:
├── Relationship review (how are we?)
├── Adventure (something new)
├── Extended time (full day together)
└── Appreciation ritual (specific gratitude)
CLOSE CIRCLE SYSTEM:
FRIENDSHIP MAINTENANCE:
├── Proactive outreach (don't wait)
├── Meaningful contact (not just likes)
├── Remember what matters to them
├── Show up in hard times
└── Celebrate their wins
CONTACT CADENCE:
├── Best friends: Weekly touch
├── Close friends: Monthly touch
├── Good friends: Quarterly touch
├── Extended: Annual touch
└── System: Calendar reminders
COMMUNITY BUILDING:
AUDIENCE → COMMUNITY TRANSITION:
├── Enable member-to-member connection
├── Create shared experiences
├── Establish norms and values
├── Recognize active members
└── Delegate leadership
PRESENCE RHYTHM:
├── Consistent showing up
├── Authentic sharing
├── Value-first interaction
├── Remember individuals
└── Long-term relationship mindset
"I'm using the Circle Pillar skill for relationship review.
My intimate circle:
- [Person 1]: Connection quality (1-10): ___
- [Person 2]: Connection quality (1-10): ___
My close circle (5-15 people):
- Average connection quality (1-10): ___
- Last contact with each: [describe]
Current challenges: [describe]
Help me:
1. Assess relationship health
2. Identify neglected relationships
3. Suggest immediate actions
4. Create maintenance system"
"I'm using the Circle Pillar skill for partnership work.
Current state:
- Connection quality (1-10): ___
- Communication (1-10): ___
- Shared time this week: [hours]
- Recent conflict: [describe or N/A]
- What's working: [describe]
- What needs attention: [describe]
Please:
1. Assess partnership health
2. Identify top priority
3. Suggest this week's focus
4. Recommend conversation starter"
"I'm using the Circle Pillar skill for conflict help.
The situation: [describe]
My perspective: [describe]
Their likely perspective: [guess]
What I want: [outcome]
What I've tried: [describe]
Help me:
1. See the other perspective
2. Identify my contribution
3. Script an opening conversation
4. Suggest path to resolution"
WEEK 1: ASSESSMENT
├── Day 1-2: Circle mapping
├── Day 3-4: Relationship quality audit
├── Day 5-6: Identify gaps
└── Day 7: Priority setting
WEEK 2: INTIMATE FOCUS
├── Day 8-10: Partner/family intensive
├── Day 11-14: New rhythms installation
└── Check-in on progress
WEEK 3: CLOSE CIRCLE
├── Day 15-17: Reach out to neglected friends
├── Day 18-21: Deepen key relationships
└── Establish maintenance system
WEEK 4: INTEGRATION
├── Day 22-25: Community presence
├── Day 26-28: System refinement
├── Day 29-30: Sustainability planning
└── Review and celebrate
Circle → Energy:
Circle → Soul:
Circle → Capital:
Circle → Legacy:
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